Beyond the basic title of Dominant or submissive, are there other titles you prefer or are interested in exploring?
Are there any that turn you off or don’t seem like a good fit for you?
I generally introduce myself as a Leather person. I don’t always indicate that I’m a slave (the collar generally does that for me). The Leather is more important to me anyway. It shapes a lot of my outlooks on the lifestyle and has deeply shaped my own power exchange path.
It’s probably why I refer to myself more as His boy/boi/girl rather than His sub.
I’m also a masochist, a (baby) bootblack, a bottom. “Bitch” is exclusively reserved for my Daddy.
I don’t identify with very feminine titles. I don’t identify as a pet in particular or a little or anything on the top side. I enjoy exploring some of these roles and have done so, but the words don’t fit me (yet?).
I see a lot of titles and labels as very flexible things and I enjoy dabbling in other people’s “pools” without picking up the label or term permanently. I am a strong believer in utilizing labels to explore ourselves but I also think that they can stretch further than the surface may lead us to believe.