30 Days of D/s – What Do You Think About Orgasm Control?

Orgasm control is probably one of my oldest and earliest kinks. I learned about edging in fanfiction and was pretty much hooked. I began to experiment with it on my own and found I really enjoyed the tease and denial aspects of orgasm control. When I began exploring sex with partners, it was an immediate turn-on for me and something I genuinely enjoyed doing.

It’s a kink for me though, just like flogging or bondage, and isn’t something I immediately think about when I think about D/s. It plays into that control element that I love and I’ve started seeing it more from a desire to please my top rather than what I’m getting out of it. Daddy gets plenty of sadistic pleasure out of ordering me to cum in front of other people though. Orgasm control doesn’t have to be just about denial! Daddy doesn’t have restrictions on how, when, or where I orgasm. It’s not something that interests either of us as a full-time rule. It’s fun to play with during a scene, but not for the rest of our life. Being polyamorous adds another complicated layer to all of it too.

I think orgasm denial is one of those fun kinks to play with for specific periods of time but long-term denial just isn’t for me. I get grumpy rather than turned on or desperate after a while. And that doesn’t make any of it fun for anyone.

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