Subspace is a very special thing for me. I’ve been lucky to have achieved subspace in many of my play sessions but I’m very careful to never make it the goal of a scene. The trance like state is warm and wonderful for me to float in and hard to leave when a scene is over. There are some things that send me to space straight away but other factors have to be all lined up too. Pressure points seem to be pretty 50/50 if they’ll just annoy me or send me to space.
I think subspace can be pretty misunderstood by folks and ends up being something like marks and bruises: a goal to reach rather than an experience to have. I very much see space as something that happens as a side note and not a thing to check off of a list to mark a scene as “successful”.
