Welcome to my series BDSM Basics where I discuss the building blocks of BDSM. This …
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Dominants, Apologies, Leadership
Try not to apologise. That also means you “can’t go wrong” and that you should …
BDSM Basics: What is Play?
In the first post, we briefly touched on different kinds of BDSM play – bondage, spanking, …
The Dominant’s Wardrobe and the sub’s Resources
As a Dom, you will need suits, shirts, ties, smart shoes. Or sexy clothes, whips, …
Decision Making in M/s
By taking the role of a true submissive, you decide to allow your dom to …
3 BDSM Books That Improved My Submission
It’s no secret that I’m a big reader. Part of the BDSM books that I …
Power Exchange Strategies for ADHD
I figured out that I had ADHD in the last few years and a lot …
4 Words and Phrases to Stop Using in BDSM
If you’re just getting into the world of BDSM, you’re probably hearing a lot of …
10 Things to Know Before Going to a BDSM Convention
If you’ve never been to a BDSM convention, they can seem intimidating. A few hundred …
A Bit Adrift
The other night I confessed to Daddy that I was feeling adrift and wasn’t sure …